Vigneesh Manoharan

Tag: positivity

  • Feeling out of place..

    Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.

    #ThisIsNotMe

    There was this one phase in my life, where I had certain misunderstandings with my spouse.

    We both had tough times and that was the 1st time where I couldn’t feel connected to myself.

    Even while going on a bike ride, I couldn’t feel like am having a good time and most importantly I even forgot that am riding a motorcycle and I absolutely had zero control over the bike which could have turned into a major accident.

    That’s when I found out that I needed help and I went to a therapist. Little did it help, but it gave me the space to find a gap to reconnect with myself and that was more than enough for me to find my light at the end of darkness.

    Always make sure you stay connected with yourself. That’s more important.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • To lead or not to..

    Do you see yourself as a leader?

    #ToLead

    This is a really nice question to ask ourselves indeed.

    If I think about myself, I can see, I have the leadership mentality, but, still not yet there in terms of leadership quality.

    I can lead and put myself in the forefront in terms of organizing things, but, in terms of emotional strength to face failures while doing so, hmmm, quite not there yet.

    Good day to you 🫡.

  • Mindset and standout..

    What do you do to be involved in the community?

    #OneInAMillion

    Mindset – For me it’s important to understand what kind of community am in. I know this by understanding the mindset of the majority of people.

    Standout – If the community seems to be a positive place then I will try to mingle with them with my positive attitude and friendly approach. If not, I will stand out, literally 😁.

    I have been in WhatsApp groups of apartments where they don’t chat anything and you won’t even get any replies even if you seek help. Better to be quiet there than to mingle😌.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • My 2 cents..

    What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

    #ThisTooShallPass

    Whenever I feel sad with negative feelings occupying my thoughts, I either have good food or do some casual gaming or just take a stroll around in my bike.

    The idea is to gain focus back and the above 3 will at one point make me forget about the negativity and will allow me to look ahead.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • Living the dream..

    What were your parents doing at your age?

    #OneStepAtAAtime

    Am 33 now. Am sure my sister might also have born.

    My family had a poor background, both dad and mom.

    They came up in life thanks to their education, sincerity, hard work and planning.

    At this age both of them had a government job and were so keen on saving up for us that they sacrificed much for themselves.

    At present, when I think, I don’t really think I was raised poor. I’d say I was raised right.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • Less is more..

    What is one thing you would change about yourself?

    #LessIsMore

    Less procrastination, more doing.

    That’s it, that’s the post😁.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • Fearless..

    What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

    #GettingScared

    Well I can say unrealistic things like skydiving or holding my breath under water. But when it comes to real life am mostly not scared to do anything.

    Even if something arises that induces fear, am more than willing to do it as it becomes a life lesson later.

    In life, I always see myself as a student who loves to learn new things.

    Good day to you🫡.

  • A best person..

    What was the best compliment you’ve received?

    Earlier during the time when I started my career, i got a complement from my friend that I treat women respectfully and also give them the space they need that my spouse would be one lucky woman.

    After marriage I got a complement from my wife recently about my riding hobby that instead of showing off with all the high end gears, I started from nothing, learnt a lot over the years, understood what’s needed and what’s not and then developed my skill.

    I’d say these 2 are the best compliments that I have received and I have even saved my friend’s complement as a text that I’d read whenever I feel down to remind myself who I am🙂.

    Now what’s your story?. Good day to you🫡.

  • My experiences with life #DailyPrompt

    What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

    Rejection:

    When I proposed to the same girl twice in a gap of 3 years she didn’t accept me both the times.

    I performed well in my 1st interview in college, even then i didn’t get selected when almost the whole of my class was selected in the interview

    Rejection really teaches you a lot. What to expect, what not to expect, how to be and how not to be.

    Finance and passion:

    Having a passion is mandatory. It provides your life a purpose and gives you a pivot whenever you feel low.

    When your passion becomes your hobby and when you need more money to elevate to the next level and when you don’t have that, you understand where you stand in your life financially.

    Then you look up from the darkness and see that small light which is your passion and you start to climb.

    Good day to you🫡.