Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why?
There was a time, past seemed important.
But it’s always present and future now.
Future is where we’re heading into, and it’s nothing wrong to plan how it should be.
But, present is equally important than future so failing to live in it doesn’t make sense.
Need to find the right balance.
Good day to you🫡.
Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.
There was this one phase in my life, where I had certain misunderstandings with my spouse.
We both had tough times and that was the 1st time where I couldn’t feel connected to myself.
Even while going on a bike ride, I couldn’t feel like am having a good time and most importantly I even forgot that am riding a motorcycle and I absolutely had zero control over the bike which could have turned into a major accident.
That’s when I found out that I needed help and I went to a therapist. Little did it help, but it gave me the space to find a gap to reconnect with myself and that was more than enough for me to find my light at the end of darkness.
Always make sure you stay connected with yourself. That’s more important.
Good day to you🫡.
What do you wish you could do more every day?
Life’s getting busy day by day and again am being sucked into it.
It’d be better if I could find some time to focus on myself and see some growth.
Good day to you🫡.
If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?
“Try”. It’s more of a positive word but most of the time when someone seeks for help, we say “I’ll try”.
But, we know we can’t help them and we don’t have time to help them as we’re fighting our own fight.
So just have the courage and tell them that “No”.
What are your thoughts?.
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What were your parents doing at your age?
Am 33 now. Am sure my sister might also have born.
My family had a poor background, both dad and mom.
They came up in life thanks to their education, sincerity, hard work and planning.
At this age both of them had a government job and were so keen on saving up for us that they sacrificed much for themselves.
At present, when I think, I don’t really think I was raised poor. I’d say I was raised right.
Good day to you🫡.
Do you need a break? From what?
No. I just had all my breaks recently and I personally believe this is the time I get to move, and fast.
Be it personal, career or emotional growth, this is the time to go to the next stage.
Good day to you🫡.
Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end.
Ah the perfect day. It starts with waking up lazy and have a sumptuous non veg breakfast and leave my son at his abacus class so that I can be free for 2 hours.
Those 2 hours are mine. I can go for that long pending test ride that I was planning or come back and fall in my cozy bed and mindlessly play Bullet Echo for those full 2 hours.
Then have an awesome non veg meal and a soul filling milkshake and then wind down till evening.
Then we go for a long drive in car for dinner speaking about random stuff, hearing awesome old songs and have a light veg dinner at a highway restaurant.
And then we come back home late at night to end the day.
In this day, I get to have 2 bike rides + test ride, 2 long drives in car and 3 awesome meals.
This is a mix of my Saturdays and Sundays and if I could get both in a single day, then that’s my perfect day😇.
Good day to you🫡.
How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?
What a beautiful topic to write about.
I call this, phases of life.
The way we see life differs with age and time.
The family member whom I loved the most, is no longer the same. The family member whom I hated the most, is the one who is helping us. My mother just passed away last year mid.
All these things will happen then and there in your life which will make you question your perspective about that.
The outcome of this is wisdom, that helps you keep moving in life💪🏼.
Good day to you🫡.
What are your biggest challenges?
Currently my biggest challenge is the amount of rest I take between chores or other tasks.
Definitely need to reduce it to be even more productive this year😌.
Good day to you 🫡.
What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?
Well I can say unrealistic things like skydiving or holding my breath under water. But when it comes to real life am mostly not scared to do anything.
Even if something arises that induces fear, am more than willing to do it as it becomes a life lesson later.
In life, I always see myself as a student who loves to learn new things.
Good day to you🫡.