What does it mean to be a kid at heart?
At first glimpse, I could say, it means to be an innocent and a beautiful mind.
But the more you behave the same way, speaking without filtering, then soon you’ll realize that it brings more harm to you than anything outside.
It’s literally you ruining every good things that’s bound to happen to you.
So be a kid at heart, only to kids and be an adult to adults.
Don’t be a clown. Good day to you 🫡.
Do you see yourself as a leader?
This is a really nice question to ask ourselves indeed.
If I think about myself, I can see, I have the leadership mentality, but, still not yet there in terms of leadership quality.
I can lead and put myself in the forefront in terms of organizing things, but, in terms of emotional strength to face failures while doing so, hmmm, quite not there yet.
Good day to you 🫡.
What do you do to be involved in the community?
Mindset – For me it’s important to understand what kind of community am in. I know this by understanding the mindset of the majority of people.
Standout – If the community seems to be a positive place then I will try to mingle with them with my positive attitude and friendly approach. If not, I will stand out, literally 😁.
I have been in WhatsApp groups of apartments where they don’t chat anything and you won’t even get any replies even if you seek help. Better to be quiet there than to mingle😌.
Good day to you🫡.
What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?
The ability that I wish for is a better presence of mind so that I can focus less on shit and on my growth 😌.
Good day to you🫡.
If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?
“Try”. It’s more of a positive word but most of the time when someone seeks for help, we say “I’ll try”.
But, we know we can’t help them and we don’t have time to help them as we’re fighting our own fight.
So just have the courage and tell them that “No”.
What are your thoughts?.
Good day to you🫡.
What were your parents doing at your age?
Am 33 now. Am sure my sister might also have born.
My family had a poor background, both dad and mom.
They came up in life thanks to their education, sincerity, hard work and planning.
At this age both of them had a government job and were so keen on saving up for us that they sacrificed much for themselves.
At present, when I think, I don’t really think I was raised poor. I’d say I was raised right.
Good day to you🫡.
Do you need a break? From what?
No. I just had all my breaks recently and I personally believe this is the time I get to move, and fast.
Be it personal, career or emotional growth, this is the time to go to the next stage.
Good day to you🫡.
What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?
Well I can say unrealistic things like skydiving or holding my breath under water. But when it comes to real life am mostly not scared to do anything.
Even if something arises that induces fear, am more than willing to do it as it becomes a life lesson later.
In life, I always see myself as a student who loves to learn new things.
Good day to you🫡.
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?
Rejection:
When I proposed to the same girl twice in a gap of 3 years she didn’t accept me both the times.
I performed well in my 1st interview in college, even then i didn’t get selected when almost the whole of my class was selected in the interview
Rejection really teaches you a lot. What to expect, what not to expect, how to be and how not to be.
Finance and passion:
Having a passion is mandatory. It provides your life a purpose and gives you a pivot whenever you feel low.
When your passion becomes your hobby and when you need more money to elevate to the next level and when you don’t have that, you understand where you stand in your life financially.
Then you look up from the darkness and see that small light which is your passion and you start to climb.
Good day to you🫡.